You Can Do it!......No seriously you can :)

            
Hello all!  I  know your time is valuable so I will make this quick.  I was just thinking over my life and different things I have accomplished and have not accomplished.  Contemplating over things that I always wanted to do but couldn't because of certain situations and life decisions.  Honestly I have never been a very confident person and have always lacked self motivation. My mom always used to say "Girl you just have no get up and go".  lol  I think Ive always had the mind set to not reach for the sky and to live in a pretty mediocre existence.  Any-who as I was pondering over this I had a revelation, why cant I do whatever it is I set my mind to?  Why don't I have the ability like others to set out and complete the things i set out to do?   The conclusion I came to was I had too many excuses and not enough solutions, I doubted myself way too much, my confidence level was at a low.  ( of course once i told my hubby all of this, he said uh....Duh) As soon as i started to think a little more positive, I started to become more productive.  I know we all heard it before, the mind is a powerful thing (or was that cocaine is a powerful drug???) anyway they were right, it is.  There are so many other people I know who are just like me who are scared to take risks, scared to think outside the box, and scared to set themselves apart from the rest.  For me not anymore, we have to make our lives count and we have to do the things that make us happy and not have any reservations about it.  I love to write but I was scared no one will read my stuff.  Then I thought you know what WHO CARES if only one person reads this, I will still be happy.  Anyways I said all this to say have confidence in yourself, love yourself, and believe in yourself because no one else will if you don't.




Lovn Lyfe and wish'n you the bestest,



Yoli G.

My daughter Asianah acting crazy, she wants to be an actress and she has a natural confidence that i pray never fades away.